Happy 4th of July!
This weekend took me back to my parents' home - my "boyhood home", you might call it - on the rural far east side of Cleveland, Ohio. It had been two years since I had been there, and although now I call Madison my residence, I was immediately relaxed and happy - this place is a part of me and one where I feel at home.
By way of Janesville, and the second annual
Rock Roll n Run triathlon! This is a small but mighty race: it's a sprint distance, with a fast swim
downstream in the Rock River, a 14-mile rectangular bike ride through farm country, and a 3.1-mile run through downtown Janesville, featuring the Saturday farmers' market! This year, 195 people participated in the race, many of them first-timers to the sport. I had the joy of chatting with one newbie on the way into transition from the car - she was excited and I welcomed her! My tri friends Lynn and Julia also came down to the race - not quite the group of 9 we rassled up last year, but very nice to be in the company of friends. To boot, Julia won her age group, and Lynn took 5 whole minutes off her swim time from last year! If you're in the area, save the date for the 2012 race. The weather was hot and humid, and it was a good day for finding my edge, which I did. It was well inside of the proverbial "pain cave."
There wasn't a shower on site, but there was a hose: that was enough to get me feeling somewhat clean after a tough day. With a change of clothes and stick of deodorant, I put on my compression socks (and Crocs) and hit the road: since I was already an hour south, I figured why not just drive the other 8 1/2 hours over to Cleveland?! It was a long haul, but I had some podcasts, good music, and good phone conversations to keep me occupied. 525 miles (and 1 time zone) later, I pulled in around 8pm, to a lush scene of flowers and landscaping: this is my parents' biggest hobby, and it certainly shows. Only moments later did another car pull in, carrying my Texan brother's family back from a day trip, and streaming out of the doors were my two little nieces, running to me yelling "DAAAAAANNN!" With that kind of welcome, I didn't even need to hold up my trophy from the race, I had all the accolades I needed.
Since my brothers and I grew up, the focus of these weekends has shifted to the little girls: the nieces and granddaughters. Rightfully so, because they are very cute and a lot of fun. I was glad to provide them with a lot of smiles, and probably some different perspectives than they were used to hearing, because my life is a lot different from theirs. For the Fourth, the family went to Uncle Bill's house, a quintessential family meeting place for decades. Bill has a large yard and deck, and even dug himself a lake - a fun place to play and a good place to land at the bottom of the single-kicker he uses in training Olympic-bound aerial freestyle skiers!
This time I added my own twist to the trip: since I had come by way of the Tri and had all my gear with me, I rode my bike to Bill's house. I had done this once before, and everyone recalled it: back in high school, before I was in much shape, I attempted this ride... after riding for probably a couple hours, including over gravel roads, I ended up flatting my tire, and since of course I didn't have any repair equipment with me, I stashed the bike in some trees, and ran the last few miles to Bill's house. No problem running because, of course, I didn't have clipless pedals either. This time, it was a 17-mile cruise on my racing bike, over smooth paved roads at a high rate of speed: I knew the route so well from all my life's trips, even all the little hills, but it all looked completely different from the handlebars. I reflected on what a different man I've become over those years, how I've come to see things differently. Sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I had gotten in shape earlier - but I let these thoughts float by quickly.
As I climbed the final hill, I looked over my shoulder and saw that red car with Wisconsin license plates, and threw the hammer to stay in front of Mom and Dad.... with a 41-mph descent on the final hill, I stayed in the lead as we rolled into Bill's driveway! I gave the family a quick hello, then ran right into the lake, where I stayed for the remainder of the day. The ride only took me 50 minutes, but the family talked all day about what a feat this had been. I guess I've come to see things a lot differently in this respect.
On Wednesday morning after breakfast and hugs goodbye, I hit the road to head back home to Wisconsin. It was a good visit, and I never like to leave. It was 7 am, and I was driving smoothly and gently, in a sentimental mood and thinking about the long haul ahead. As I crossed town, I noticed that all those around me were making their way to work through the morning rush hour, darting in and out of lanes, zooming past, maneuvering, anxious. It was almost as if all this was happening on a TV screen as I gently made my way. I was satisfied with the progress I was making, knowing that I had to be patient for the day and just keep on going, regardless of these other drivers' objectives. "Ride your ride." When the gun goes off at 7am, I get to pick how I expend my energy, and although I share the road with the other racers, all I have to offer it is my own goal. I made several stops to fill up my water bottle and use the bathroom, I tuned in to good music, and I gradually let go of the pain of having to leave this comfortable weekend behind. There will be comfortable weekends ahead. There is comfort in a long day on the road, with nothing else to do but keep moving forward.
When I pulled into my driveway in Madison around 4 in the afternoon, I thought, "In September, this is right about when I'll be starting my marathon."